completely free personals Login | Online Dating Home
Sign-up Now
Completely FREE online dating...

100% Free Photo personal ads with video chat.

relarionship online datung onlune dating online datinh
» Click here
to sign-up now
Speed up Firefox
Configure your Firefox browser to download webpages faster with a simple 3 minute configuration.

Your best online dating experience would be realised with fast loading pages.
[find out how..]

Post a Local Event
online dating
dating Audio/Video chat Oasis Audio/Video chat
dating profile photos Manage Photos
The categories: men seeking women, women seeking men, available for singles or the lonely seeking a relationship, a date, a companion, or just plain dating.

The primary goal is to meet local singles and find love. This dating site caters for jewish singles, asian singles, christian singles, black singles.

Gay personals falls under the category men seeking men, and women seeking women.

All categories are local singles free personal ads. Also available are the older generation seeking companionship. Just about any form of online dating is represented on oasisoflove.

Live interraction is very important and so we've brought you web chat, audio chat, video chat. At the same time as you browse personal ads, you can use our instant messenger to connect with other users.

Our Online match system is in the works.

Free personals keeps money in your pocket, while you're still enjoying the full benefits of any dating site or dating service today.

Any feature can be created such as forums by popular demand.

After signing up, don't forget to vote on issues in our polls and surveys section.

Adult personal ads and matchmaking is not far behind upon demand.

online dating Link to this Article

Growing discontent with online dating

Online dating is a very convenient and laid back way to meet people far and near. The traditional way of meeting someone has been for a long time to get introduced by a friend, go to bars or singles parties. People also meet at work, sports clubs, supermarkets, libraries, at school, etc. By all accounts, these methods have one thing in common, a close proximity between the people involved. If your lifestyle precludes or limits your participation in the listed activities, or you are new in a place and have no friends yet, then your dating life also takes a hit.

Then came the Internet and bulletin boards for social interractions. Before long, the Net was being used to meet people in the local area. Eventually, Internet dating exploded into what it is today, which is an elaborate message exchange system, chatting forums, and a place to socialise worldwide.

There is no shortage of dating websites today both big and small. But is online dating working? What is the level of contentment among users of dating web sites? Online dating reviews, and discussion forums show that there is increasing discontent, and utter frustration expressed by people dating via the Internet.

One of the biggest reasons for this is the fact that there is a disproportionate number of men using the sites compared to women. The actual ratio is a subject of research, but by all indications, there is quite a number of males to each female. The imbalance means women are flooded with a lot of mail on a daily basis. Considering the amount of effort required to read each and every mail, many women are overwhelmed, and so simply delete the mails without reading them. Because of this situation, many men do not receive responses from the people they contact.

In general, women are frustrated as a result of the sheer volume of mail that fill up their mailboxes. While men are frustrated because their mails are mostly ignored.

Unless something is done about the current method of online dating, the frustration expressed by users will continue to grow as more and more people come online. This is where comes in. Let's consider the problems, and what Oasisoflove has done to address each one.

Women receive more mail than they can handle. Therefore, they simply delete most of them. To correct this, Oasisoflove has built a comprehensive mail filtering system. On most dating sites, anybody can contact anybody else. On, you as a user can define the characteristics that someone must have in order to be able to send you a message. Why haven't other dating sites thought about this before? The fact is, they have. Unfortunately, it's not in their financial interest to curtail messaging. Being able to send messages to anyone anywhere gives false hope to a user, who would then gladly pay the membership fees. on the other hand puts the interest and satisfaction of the user first.

The next problem has to do with people deciding not to reply to messages they receive. A user can do this with impunity on other dating sites. To combat this, has introduced a tracking system that not only keeps a record of what percentage of messages a user has responded to as a ratio of total messages ever received, it also tracks your average response time.

This is a powerful feature that has the potential of eradicating the bad behavior among users in terms of not responding to messages. Basically, if a user sees your record as somebody who responds to most messages you receive, and you do so in a timely manner, the user is more likely to contact you over another user who takes a very long time to reply to messages or perhaps hardly replies to messages.

One way that users may defeat this system would be to simply open every message they receive, and send a short meaningless reply. has also anticipated this, and has a solution. The system tracks the number of characters on average a user sends in his or her responses. That should encourage people to send good replies, and promote deeper interraction. Furthermore, there is a tracking of percentage of messages opened, and invariably, percentage ignored without being read.

One of the challenges online dating presents to users is physical attraction. In a face to face meeting, a person's physical features is the first thing you see before making the next move to approach that person. Unfortunately, it's the exact opposite online. This problem is compounded by the fact that many profiles lack the usual mugshots. In order to encourage people to add photos to their profiles, profiles with photos have higher priority in searches. Profiles without pictures would only show up after all picture profiles have been displayed.

Let's face it, finding someone compatible with you is not easy. So a person must be prepared to work toward achieving that goal, part of which includes making the effort to show people what you look like. Of course, some people have legitimate reasons to remain annonymous online. In that case, allows upload of private photos. is the number one dating site that has seriously set out to promote positive interraction among users, and hopefully lead to a higher level of satisfaction. User satisfaction is's primary concern, in order to restore the appeal and efficacy of online dating.

© Reprint permission granted, as long as the following credit is included:
Author: - FREE Online Dating


User Comments:

Add a comment.
Keep your comment relevant and succinct.

If submit button is disabled, it means you are not logged in. Login now.

  • Why guys don't write back
    This one came from a poster on Craigslist.

    As a public service, thought it'd be nice to list some reasons why I will not write back. This may or may not be true for others.

    1) You reveal that your divorce is..

  • Taxing the rich to give to the poor
    Under pure capitalism, the more an individual works, the higher his potential earnings. Therefore, people are inclined to work harder. It's not easy to become an anesthesiologist, but you know if you can make it, you'd end up earning $300,000+ annu..

  • America's Problems


    When something is sub-prime, it means it's less than adequate. The term sub-prime loan was coined from banks lending money to "sub-prime" customers, customers whose income does not justify the debt they're..

  • Women 'find lovers online'
    Women are natural communicators and see the internet as a new toy

    One in 10 women who use the internet at work say they have found a lover by first meeting men online, a survey by a UK website suggests. Some workers first meet total strangers..

  • Free vs Paying Online Dating Sites
    In the early days of online dating, all dating web sites were free. Reason? The Internet was seen more as a taboo, just the same way that very few people then would give their credit card number for online purchases.

    As the Internet i..

  • Predators online
    The results of recent online stings carried out in Internet chat rooms, has shown that the number of men preying on innocent young boys and girls is increasing at an alarming rate. There has been specials on several TV stations about this revelation..

  • Beginning of the end for Internet dating
    While a major debate is raging against proposed background checks in America, Belarussia wasted no time in placing an outright ban on online dating within its shores.

    This ban is an interesting development for a simple reason, it clearly shows ..

  • Online dating background checks to be law
    Interest is brewing from various quarters to require background checks for users of dating websites.

    Most users who join dating sites have no idea how effective the particular dating site is. They therefore sign-up with several dating site..

  • Men's golden rule of online dating - Patience begets Trust
    People today have taken to online dating like a duck to water. Unfortunately, little innovation exists in the industry beyond the humdrum of message exchanges between members.

    A dating site, is taking the initiative of ..

  • The appeal of computerized dating
    Our world is getting increasingly busier, and we are invariably becoming dependent on computers and the Internet. Every conceivable aspect of our lives is now computerized in some manner.

    With the amount of time we spend on computers, it's ..

  • How to write a good online dating profile
    A profile is to online dating what fuel is to a car. You need a good profile for time spent on a dating site to be worth your while. Basically, what you put in is what you get out of creating your profile. A little extra effort would go a long way..

  • Dating site fights scamming proactively
    While dating online is convenient for the parties involved, it also could attract unsavoury characters with every intention but finding a date. Online dating scams are perpetrated predominantly by foreign subjects primarily from Eastern European c..

  • The misconception about Online Dating
    Are you one of those who believe a dating web site is a place you go to get a date without lifting a finger?

    So you've just joined an online dating site. You hurriedly, and half-heartedly fill out a profile with no picture, and then wait t..

  • The truth about Photos
    A rule of thumb of online dating is that if you don't post a picture, you are likely hiding something.

    The seriousness with which a person is looking for a partner is determined by factors such as how complete the profile is, what percentag..

Sponsors - home for your career search in and around Las Vegas.
my website is nice and is hotel here in london,and good to all
Post text ads like this about you website FREE
Non Sexual theraputic /relaxation massage
i will tell you if i know you
Free Classified, Buy Sell all types of property, Promote your Business or w
Advertise your website..